At the end of the day, you want to make sure you are doing the most important thing that you can. It is that simple. Sometimes, however, we fail to remember that sometimes self-awareness is not the most important thing that we should be doing.
For example, a lot of people who don’t own their own website will find themselves on a list of websites recommended for free to get them more traffic. The problem is that these sites can be owned by the same people who are recommending them, and so the recommendation is the same and the person who owns the website doesn’t care that their recommendation is actually spam.
For a lot of people, being on a list of websites recommended for free to get them more traffic is a net positive, but for others it may be a net negative. For example, I can recommend a lot of places on the internet to you, but if I go to one of those places and you visit it too I might find that my recommendation is less-than-encouraging.
Personally, I tend to look at the recommendations I have read and write them down to be more objective than a person who doesn’t know me, or who doesn’t have my best interests in mind. I’ll also look at my own recommendations to see if they match up with my own experience with the website.
To be clear, the recommendations we make are not those of us who have the same experience as ourselves. Instead, we are recommending sites based on the experience we have with them. We may recommend your website to a friend or colleague, but we are not recommending your website to you.
We don’t have any experience with any of the websites that we recommend, so please don’t bother trying to guess what we think about them based on the experience we’ve had with them.
Again, this is not because we have no experience, but because we don’t have the same experience as ourselves. We are recommending that you take a few minutes to look through these websites. You can also download the list of recommended websites to your computer in case you want to use it later.
We think that the vast majority of people who use these sites will be able to use them, and we also think that the websites we recommend are worth the effort of trying to understand. We are only suggesting that you look through them.
We are only suggesting that you look through them. If you do, you might find that you agree with what we say, and you might be motivated to do more.
We also think it’s important to use other websites for a wide variety of personal business matters. For example, if you need to find someone to help you with your divorce, we recommend the divorce website. If you want to find a doctor for a medical emergency, we recommend the healthcare website. If you need to find and hire an IT contractor, we also recommend the contractor website. If you have a question about a particular matter, we recommend the question website.